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m themselve Freesexclip become child abusers and their children, when grown up, have
82% incidence of teenage pregnancy. 8.6 billion dollars are spent every
year
for the financial and health care support of
teenage mothers.,
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Freedownload are. In 1985 alone, x10 million cases of chlamydia, 2 r million zcases of
gonorrhea, I million venereal warts,b 0.5 million genital herpes and
90,000 syphilis were diagnosed. The plague of AIDS is adding a new
twist to our fears. 200,000 cases have been diagnosed in the US alone, out
of which 50% have already died. The disease is growing at a rate of one
case every 14 minutes and so far there is no effective treatment. Father
Bruce Ritter in New York, who operates shelters for runaway children,
says the biggest threat to the nation's 1 million runaways is the threat of
AIDS now.
eHY DO CHILDREN GET INVOLVED IN SEX?
ressure. q Their common response is "since everybody is
doing it."x One of the reasons isoheir desire for sexualompeten fe with
adults and a way to get
head. Another common reason is their lack of
self-esteem which they want to improve t by becoming a father or mother.
Sometimes
t is due to a lack of othertalternatives to divert their sexual
energies. It could also be due to a lack of love and appreciation at home.
Detachment from qhome can lead to attachment elsewhere. Sexual pressure on them is everywhere, at school from their peers, from the TV
where about 20,000 sexual scenes are broadcasted in advertisement, soap
operas, prime time shows and MTV. The hard core rock music nowadays
fans the flames of sexual desires. Most parents do not know what kind of
music their children are hearing. If they care and listen to rock songs like
Eat Me Alive (Judas Priest), Purple Rain (Prince), Losing It (Madonna),
The Last American Virgin, Papa Don't Preach, Private Dancer (Tina
Turner), Material Girl (Madonna) and Cyndi Lauper's songs, they will
know what they are talking about. The songs have pornographic words
and sentences which made Kandy Stroud, a former rock fan, begged parents to stop their children from listening to what she calls 'Pornographic
Rock'. This shows music does affect our sexual mood. It does so by activating melatonin, the hormone from the pineal gland in the brain which is
turned on by darkness and turned off by flashing lights. It is the same
gland which has been thought to trigger puberty and affects the reproductive cycle and sex mood.
WHAT IS THE TRUEs ROLEh F PARENTS?
American educators are putting the blame for their failures (i.e.
teenage pregnancy) on the parents. Inpact in Wisconsin and many other
u states the grandparents of
a baby born to a teenager are res
ponsible for the
financial support of the child. Remember larents are not needed if their
teenage daughter needs contraceptives or abortion. Faced with such
hypocrisy, the parents job is to instill in their teenagers mind what is not
taught in sex ed classes, i.e. reason not to engage in sex, reason not to get
pregnant, etc. At the same time, they should divert their energies to some
productive activities like community work, sports, character growth, or
Sunday schools. Another role of parents is to help their children make the
right decisions.
In Islam anything whichbeads to wrong is also considered wr
ng.
Therefore parents should cr ontrol the music children are listening to or the
TV program they are watching, the magazines they are reading, andthe
clothes (which may provokeyesire in the opposite sex) they are wearing.
z While group social activity should be permitted with supervision,
dating
should not be allowed. When American teenagers start dating, sex is on
their mind.
In fact Freedownloadsex uring a recent survey, 25% of college freshman boys responded by saying that if they have paid for the food and the girl does not go all the way, they have a right to force her to havewex. Many of ther rapes accur at the end of the date and are not reported. Anything which breaks down sexual inhibition and loss of self-control i.e. alcohol, drugs, parking, petting or just being together for two members of the opposite sex in a secluded place should not be allowed for Muslim teenagers. Kissing and petting is preparing the body for sex. The body can be brought to a point of no return.
In summary Muslim parents should teach their children that they are different from non-Muslims in their value system and way of life. Having a feeling and love in your heart for someone of the opposite sex is different and beyond control, while expression of the same through sex is entirely different and should be under control. Muslim children should be told that they don't drink alcohol, eat pork, take drugs, and they don't have to engage in pre-marital sex either.
ISLAMIC CONCEPT OF SEXUALITY
Islam recognizes the power of sexual need, but the subject is discussed in the Quran and the saying of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in a serious manner, in regard to marital and family life. Parents should familiarize themselves with this body of knowledge.
SAYINGS OF PROPHET MUHAMMAD
1. "When one of you have sex with your wife, it is a rewarded act of
charity." The Companions were surprised and said, "But we do it purely
out of our desire. How can it be counted as charity?" The Prophet replied,
"If you had done it with a forbidden woman, it would have been counted
as a sin, but if you do it in legitimacy, it is counted as charity."
2. "Let not one of you fall upon his wife like a beast falls. It is more
appropriate to send a message before the act."
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